Post by treatedlikedirt on Oct 25, 2017 2:24:30 GMT
Yes, I did. It really was THAT bad!!! I didnt do enough damage to make me die, or make me need stitches, nor did I do enough damage that would warrant a trip to the ER. It was minor, but my point is that it was still self harm. Im worried that if I continue this unhealthy relationship with her, that I might do something worse to myself. This is the 2nd time this happened to me and Im starting to realize that her drama is not good for my emotional and physical well being. I am in a better place than I was yesterday. In case your wondering, I am in therapy and also under the care of a psychiatrist. My God, how could the child I created in my body make me this suicidal? Since writing to other mothers who have dwelt with this drama here also, I figured this is also helpful therapy for me to help me heal, I figured I would write.
So heres what happened. Now before I begin I need to say that the drama with DD has gone on for years. Years and years of trying to show her how much I loved her. And here I am 7 years later and still nothing works. Last night DD made yet again drama over something minor. She got angry at me for saving some photos of her wedding in my cellphone. I was at the wedding so I figured it was okay. She then took revenge on me and put the worst, God awful photos of me on Facebook. Friends and so many people I knew also could see those photos. They weren't nude photos or anything like that, just very bad photos and she knew it would hurt me. These photos could eventually show up on Google. I sat on the couch in shock for 3 hours. I felt like I was raped. I have no control over what she posts. All because I saved some of her wedding photos to a wedding she invited me too? I never showed her wedding photos to anyone. I did it only on my phone because I was excited and she is still my daughter. Why oh why she made such a huge mountain over something simple is beyond me. So last night I deactivated my FB. Its too hurtful to see her posting photos of me out of revenge. I do realize that walking away from her is best and believe me I have tried, but 3 months later she always comes knocking on my door again and its always an emergency. The last time she came into my life was because she was in a car accident. And she sucks me back in every time.
I do have an appointment with my therapist soon. I do realize I need help before I harm myself worse. Im contemplating on blocking her on my phone, but then she contacts my husband and I still cannot get away from the drama. I have even considered divorce because my husband and I are not on the same page. She doesn't hurt him. Only me. Please, I need your advice.
thanks!
So heres what happened. Now before I begin I need to say that the drama with DD has gone on for years. Years and years of trying to show her how much I loved her. And here I am 7 years later and still nothing works. Last night DD made yet again drama over something minor. She got angry at me for saving some photos of her wedding in my cellphone. I was at the wedding so I figured it was okay. She then took revenge on me and put the worst, God awful photos of me on Facebook. Friends and so many people I knew also could see those photos. They weren't nude photos or anything like that, just very bad photos and she knew it would hurt me. These photos could eventually show up on Google. I sat on the couch in shock for 3 hours. I felt like I was raped. I have no control over what she posts. All because I saved some of her wedding photos to a wedding she invited me too? I never showed her wedding photos to anyone. I did it only on my phone because I was excited and she is still my daughter. Why oh why she made such a huge mountain over something simple is beyond me. So last night I deactivated my FB. Its too hurtful to see her posting photos of me out of revenge. I do realize that walking away from her is best and believe me I have tried, but 3 months later she always comes knocking on my door again and its always an emergency. The last time she came into my life was because she was in a car accident. And she sucks me back in every time.
I do have an appointment with my therapist soon. I do realize I need help before I harm myself worse. Im contemplating on blocking her on my phone, but then she contacts my husband and I still cannot get away from the drama. I have even considered divorce because my husband and I are not on the same page. She doesn't hurt him. Only me. Please, I need your advice.
thanks!