Post by Sunnydayz53 on Jul 30, 2016 21:32:10 GMT
So, among working lots of hours, I also tirelessly try to get my house ready for my Sister to visit for a week plus days. I spent hours/money getting my house ready. Ok, so no one asked me too but I did because she was coming to see her GDs she had been kept from, so understanding this I tried to help since she lives in another state.
She decided to share my business/estrangement with the GD to keep her longer. Basically, in her words "is parallel". How did I know she said something? The GD came up to me after how many years of not seeing her, and tells me, "Thank you for having us, I know this was really hard on you." I think - WHAT!!! I was pissed off. Ya, I was. This is the same sister who constantly tells me not to share her business. I felt the life drain out of me. First of all, helping her never crossed the two situations.
Later, she comes in my room and tries to explain and I say, you shouldn't have said anything, you had no right to bring up my business to a young girl, I don't even know. Finally, she gets snippy and tells me, I shouldn't have opened up my home and walks off. Excuse me, i opened up my home not my business. No, I didn't kick them out, I packed my bag and left to my other house. They finally left. I found a card and little gift. I threw it in the closet. I may regift to her for her birthday. lol. I was so angry.
But guess what, she taught me something, I will NEVER EVER open up my home again (except to my Parents)
Sunny
She decided to share my business/estrangement with the GD to keep her longer. Basically, in her words "is parallel". How did I know she said something? The GD came up to me after how many years of not seeing her, and tells me, "Thank you for having us, I know this was really hard on you." I think - WHAT!!! I was pissed off. Ya, I was. This is the same sister who constantly tells me not to share her business. I felt the life drain out of me. First of all, helping her never crossed the two situations.
Later, she comes in my room and tries to explain and I say, you shouldn't have said anything, you had no right to bring up my business to a young girl, I don't even know. Finally, she gets snippy and tells me, I shouldn't have opened up my home and walks off. Excuse me, i opened up my home not my business. No, I didn't kick them out, I packed my bag and left to my other house. They finally left. I found a card and little gift. I threw it in the closet. I may regift to her for her birthday. lol. I was so angry.
But guess what, she taught me something, I will NEVER EVER open up my home again (except to my Parents)
Sunny
